About FAQ

What is PretendAgain?

PretendAgain is a company founded and run by ABDLs and Diaperfurs/Babyfurs who are interested in expressing their identity in tasteful and practical ways. You can be your inner kid and share it with the world with PretendAgain products.

We want to provide products that you can use anytime, any place. You may have seen shirts or hats from other companies that are subtle cues to those “in the know”. Imagine a whole world where you can see a bag, a shirt, or shoes and know “Hey, they’re an ABDL, too!” You have permission to be yourself when strutting your PretendAgain outfits and accessories!

What do you offer for sale?

We offer ABDL lifestyle products - things you can use in your daily life to keep your inner child smiling! For example, a diaper bag that doubles as a regular backpack and shopping totes you can use at the grocery store with a cute print.

  • Clothing
  • Home Accessories
  • And more! We're looking into new products all the time.

How often do you release new products?

We release new toys when they're ready. Sometimes it's hard to hold back from releasing products! For this reason, we have strict policies in place to make sure Quality Assurance is the top priority! Quality Assurance is the reason some products take longer than expected. 

 

Do you offer diapers?

Yes! We offer TryAgains Diapers! Learn more at TryAgainsDiapers.com.

How are you different than other ABDL companies?

We’re glad you asked! Here are a few key areas we are different:

  • We aim to provide products you can use in most places. It is our goal to help represent you in every-day products that fill your house, wardrobe, and creatively express your unique identity. In short, our products aim to make you even more YOU!

  • We support and encourage the presence of girls/women into ageplay. Too many products out there do not address the unique needs of girls and non-male genders and we want to show off beautiful contributions from all corners of our community! Check for our “Girls into Ageplay” seal as you shop if you want to support the cause!

  • We strive to work with skilled artists in the community to showcase the diverse creativity hiding behind those blankies and plushies!

  • We want our artists to be the center of attention for their creative work and encourage our artists to sign every product they make for PretendAgain.
  • We are working to create zero net-new single-use plastic in our world. This means we are working as much as we can to remove shrinkwrap, plastic packaging, etc. that winds up in landfills and the ocean. If we can’t eliminate it, we work to use 100% recycled plastic and ensure our plastic can also be recycled easily.

  • We are from the Pacific Northwest and proud of it!

What’s ABDL?

ABDL stands for “Adult Baby/Diaper Lover”, a community of people online who are adults who dress as and behave like someone who is a different age. It’s a lot like live action roleplay (LARP) or BDSM power exchanges. ABs usually roleplay for emotional fulfillment, DLs for the sexual side as a kink. Non-furry ABDLs often identify as "Littles", "Mids", and "Bigs". No minors are ever involved.

What’s Furry?

A community of people who like anthropomorphic animals (similar to cartoons and movies) and often create their own “fursonas” they vicariously live through on their personal time. Many furries also are ABDLs, or collectively called “babyfurs” or “diaperfurs.” Furries do not always identify as "Littles" or similar and can prefer "cub" or similar.

Can I work for you? Can I be an influencer?

If you want us to keep your resume on hand when an opportunity does come up and are an artist, animator, or scriptwriter, send your resume/CV to resume@pretendagain.com We WILL check resumes on-hand before those recently submitted.

Who did the character arts on your FAQ pages?

Glad you asked! Our art was done by @li0nsqueezy

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Spencer M Parker (Michigan)
Me & My Partner Love Them!!

I am very happy with my order! The pamps feel great and look great! I love them and would recommend them to others.

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Devon Giertz (Arkansas)
I Want More

I love these diapers! The cute designs, the fit, the absorbency, the materials used, and the cost is decently balanced! I have been wearing them full-time for the past 2 weeks and absolutely adore them! My only gripe is the Trunp surcharge but it's only $8 more compared to using the Shop mobile app. What I am hoping for is some new diaper designs! Perhaps some blue would be cool! Blue is my favourite colour. I love doing business with PretendAgains. They put so much effort, love, and care into their products. I have been ordering their diapers since 3rd of August of 2024 and their quality is always 10/10. Best thing about PretendAgains is they are always in stock. I wonder if they are going to make some plastic-backed diapers. That would be interesting to see!

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Joshua Poulin (Rhode Island)
I love them!!

They are really comfy and me and my friend really like wearing them!! Plus the designs are adorable!

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Alex Reintjes (Washington)
So good!

These are my favorite diaper ever! If more diapers could be made like this, I'd be so happy!

Very good quality hoodie! It is well insulated yet breathable. Vibrant colors & beautiful design. The cut is definitely made for men, though.

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Tee (Utah)
The Perfect Diaper

I have always been on this quest to find the perfect diaper and cloth backs are my go to so when i found out about tryagains i got really excited but when they actually got here… omg… they are perfect. i have tried almost every other cloth diaper and these have the best cloth feel the tapes are super strong all the characters are adorable and i haven't leaked once even when I'm lazy about changing. These are fs going to be my go to for the foreseeable future.

Good diaper, but as a small man even the mediums are quite large! No fault of the manufacturing just got to offer a size small!

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Andrew Shewchenko (British Columbia)
Comfy and breezy

I've had the opportunity try both the fitted and relaxed version of the gamer pants, and while my preference is the relaxed for sure (lots more room in the seat for a big diaper), I kinda wish there was an in-between option as the pants become a bit swooshy at larger sizes. Still, very cute and perfect for sitting at home, not wanting to change.

Material is light-ish, not a thicker cotton like jogging pants. Colours are bright and vibrant, they are very comfy.

Excellent!

This fits very well and is extremely cute. And of course the materials are very quality.

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Thomas Bailey (Georgia)
We love them, and they'd be even better in small!

My boyfriend and I love these diapers; the large fits great on me, but the medium is a bit big for him. A small would be perfect if you guys could get those as an option from the manufacturer!

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Jaden Stock (North Carolina)

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Richard Chambers (Florida)
Amazing Diapers 🥰😍😊😁

I love these and they are so soft and very absorbant ^^ best quality and comfort for my playtimes ^////^ :3 i will be buying these again when i run out 😋 keep it up!

These diapers are so adorable 😍 I can't wait to try them out tonight

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Anonymous (Oklahoma)
Best adult diapers

Love these diapers fit great, hold all of my “accidents” and then some. Definitely recommend that everyone try again!

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Logan Fletcher (Land Berlin)
So cute!!!!

These diapies make me feel so cute and little!!!

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T.R. (Ohio)
The Absolute Bestest

*Even better when properly fluffed*
These hold a lot and are currently my absolute favorite 😍

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Anonymous (Ontario)
Comfy

Very comfy and cozy! But I do wish the bottom trim is stretchy so it’s easier to remove

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Anonymous (Texas)
Most softest absorbent diaper ever 🥰

I’ve been in diapers most of my life . I was crushed in a car by a drunk driver very young . 27 months in Baylor hospital in Houston before I could talk and waddle again . My bladder was ruptured so badly they tried to repair it . All that stuff goes inside you and it takes months to clean out my insides . My bladder was forever destroyed along with a lot of other things . Braces on both legs and still use a custom wheelchair . I’ve tried every ABDL diaper out there for a very very long time (34 years) and ummmm medical diapers … yuk ! Recently try again was suggested I try them so we ( I’m married to my mommy wife) ordered a full case . One problem I have is plastic backed diapers I love but I’m allergic to plastics down there and get seriously bad irritation . That leads to constant diaper covers and that hides pretty patterned all over print diapers . Onesies help some , it’s what plastic is made of …oil . 2nd thing is the elastic it can cause irritation between my legs . Using a diaper cover presses the edges of a diaper into my skin … more irritation . Ok … Pretend Again diapers are plastic backed but has a double coating of soft material which keeps plastic off my skin no more irritation . Seriously ! Softest ever so I don’t need diaper covers anymore . 2nd thing no leaks that’s huge ! The absorbency is amazing usually mommy wakes me up around 3am to change me . That messes up my sleep pattern but with Pretend again I don’t need a middle of the night change . Believe me it counts so I can sleep deeply . Keep in mind I’m in diapers 24/7 it takes a lot of diapers to keep me dry through the day . Pretend again I can use only 2 diapers especially at home . If I need to go out in public mommy puts a dry one on me so I don’t sag to much . Yes everyone can see I’m in diapers . After years of diapers I don’t care what others think . Mommy buys me two sets of new ABDL clothing each month . I have quite a lot of cute outfits mommy puts together . But at home I’m usually in a diaper shirt and a diaper only most the time . When wet with pretend again mommy can see the pattern changes but she always pats my backside first . If I’m super soaked she says it goes to the bottom back . I’ve worn pretend again with 3 full voids and the back never gets wet . Nice ! No more bum rash 🥰 . Yes pretend again are a bit expensive but if you consider other diapers require two to three changes to one pretend again your actually saving money . The man that hit me insurance settlement provides 800$ a month for diapers and other medical equipment so I’m ok with the price . Now the cute art on the diapers …. If your having to wear all day every day it’s always nice to look down and see cute critters and bright pretty patterns . I hate plain white diapers , my doctor knows all about my ABDL status he doesn't care at all he has mentioned a couple times Wow I’ve never seen adult diaper that look so nice . ☺️
I hope this help you out there choose a thick comfortable all day functioning diaper . Stay padded if your ABDL ( I’m a toddler not AB )
Always take care of your skin because if you medically using diapers it’s very important to stay dry so you don’t get nasty rashes . ❤️🥰❤️ 🍼

An accurate depiction!

This shirt is the perfect mix of fun and competition! We get the leading edge my being properly dressed for long soggy gaming sessions!

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John Winebrenner (Ohio)
Amazing diapers!

The absorbency and capacity far exceeded my expectations. The colors and characters are perfectly cute. And the disappearing shapes are a fun feature.

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Anonymous (California)

Great

I loved this as well! I have it on me as I am typing this review and it is fantastic! I originally thought the price was steep (which I still do think it is, just a lot less) but I now know that it is because of the materials they use. Excellent product, 6 stars!!! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Oh. My. Gosh. These pants are so adorable and so comfy! It feels like you have a cloud around your bottom half! You can hardly tell that they are there (with the exception of the warmth) if I could rate it 6 stars I would!!! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

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Skyler Johnson (Utah)
Amazing Diapers

Super cute and comfy diapers. Definitely one of the best.

Awesome product! Probably should have checked the sizing before ordering but I got an extra large and it ran a little small, other than that, looks great!