About FAQ

What is PretendAgain?

PretendAgain is a company founded and run by ABDLs and Diaperfurs/Babyfurs who are interested in expressing their identity in tasteful and practical ways. You can be your inner kid and share it with the world with PretendAgain products.

We want to provide products that you can use anytime, any place. You may have seen shirts or hats from other companies that are subtle cues to those “in the know”. Imagine a whole world where you can see a bag, a shirt, or shoes and know “Hey, they’re an ABDL, too!” You have permission to be yourself when strutting your PretendAgain outfits and accessories!

What do you offer for sale?

We offer ABDL lifestyle products - things you can use in your daily life to keep your inner child smiling! For example, a diaper bag that doubles as a regular backpack and shopping totes you can use at the grocery store with a cute print.

  • Clothing
  • Home Accessories
  • And more! We're looking into new products all the time.

How often do you release new products?

We release new toys when they're ready. Sometimes it's hard to hold back from releasing products! For this reason, we have strict policies in place to make sure Quality Assurance is the top priority! Quality Assurance is the reason some products take longer than expected. 

 

Do you offer diapers?

Yes! We offer TryAgains Diapers! Learn more at TryAgainsDiapers.com.

How are you different than other ABDL companies?

We’re glad you asked! Here are a few key areas we are different:

  • We aim to provide products you can use in most places. It is our goal to help represent you in every-day products that fill your house, wardrobe, and creatively express your unique identity. In short, our products aim to make you even more YOU!

  • We support and encourage the presence of girls/women into ageplay. Too many products out there do not address the unique needs of girls and non-male genders and we want to show off beautiful contributions from all corners of our community! Check for our “Girls into Ageplay” seal as you shop if you want to support the cause!

  • We strive to work with skilled artists in the community to showcase the diverse creativity hiding behind those blankies and plushies!

  • We want our artists to be the center of attention for their creative work and encourage our artists to sign every product they make for PretendAgain.
  • We are working to create zero net-new single-use plastic in our world. This means we are working as much as we can to remove shrinkwrap, plastic packaging, etc. that winds up in landfills and the ocean. If we can’t eliminate it, we work to use 100% recycled plastic and ensure our plastic can also be recycled easily.

  • We are from the Pacific Northwest and proud of it!

What’s ABDL?

ABDL stands for “Adult Baby/Diaper Lover”, a community of people online who are adults who dress as and behave like someone who is a different age. It’s a lot like live action roleplay (LARP) or BDSM power exchanges. ABs usually roleplay for emotional fulfillment, DLs for the sexual side as a kink. Non-furry ABDLs often identify as "Littles", "Mids", and "Bigs". No minors are ever involved.

What’s Furry?

A community of people who like anthropomorphic animals (similar to cartoons and movies) and often create their own “fursonas” they vicariously live through on their personal time. Many furries also are ABDLs, or collectively called “babyfurs” or “diaperfurs.” Furries do not always identify as "Littles" or similar and can prefer "cub" or similar.

Can I work for you? Can I be an influencer?

If you want us to keep your resume on hand when an opportunity does come up and are an artist, animator, or scriptwriter, send your resume/CV to resume@pretendagain.com We WILL check resumes on-hand before those recently submitted.

Who did the character arts on your FAQ pages?

Glad you asked! Our art was done by @li0nsqueezy

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Better than expected

The quality is amazing and it’s great love the shirt

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Game On! Shirt (Bubblegum)
devon hurst (Colorado)
Pink / 2XL
Cool shirt

I love wearing this whale gaming and padded love how it fits

Black / 2XL
An amazing shirt exspesially for lil space

I tried on this shirt fits well I like it and it’s amazing to have on when I’m in lil space

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TryAgains Diapers
Anonymous (Massachusetts)
Medium / Bag - 10 Diapers
Love them

Even with the tragedy of tariff increases, these are still my absolute favorite. Im buying a case of them next~

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TryAgains Diapers
Jonathan (South Carolina)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers
Tariffs :(

I absolutely love the TryAgains but unfortunately they are now a little out of my price range with the additional surcharge. The extra $60 per case brings the total a little to close to $200 for my budget. Once the tariffs are lifted I will definitely be re-stocking though.

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Colin Kok (Minnesota)
Medium / Bag - 10 Diapers
Love!

These are amazing and are tied for my favorite diaper.

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Deana Ramirez (Washington)
Best Diapers on the Market!

I love these diapers, I have never had a leak and I love the wetness indicator, they are soft and comfy and make me feel so secure!

ADORABLE

such a cute shirt and amazingly comfy

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T.B. (Washington)
One of the best!

These diapers are one of the better ones I have ever tried! The fit is secure, good absorption, and swell factor. These have definitely lived up to the hype in my honest opinion!

It’s incredibly comfortable and very cute. I love it to bits

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Tyler Baker (Oregon)
Medium / Bag - 10 Diapers
One of my new favorites

Over all these are pretty great. They're not gonna be the biggest of the noisiest. But for me and my current living situation, thats what I need. They're also the hook tapes. I always love these because they can be adjusted as needed. The normal sticky ones are cool, but I hate that if it ends up being too loose or not tight enough, youre generally just stuck with what you have. The designs are fun. I haven't had any issues with leaking yet. Love them.

Best diapers ive ever worn. Soft, great designs, absorbent, and perfect fit.

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Anonymous (Ohio)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers
Plush, padded paradise!

I love these diapers so much, gang. You’ve got something just incredibly special. I still hope for something just slightly more feminine on the horizon! The sport mouse is admittedly my least favorite pal to have put on 😅

Absorbency is great, would like to see plastic backed versions that are more crinkly, possibly other design options.

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James Ferguson (New Jersey)
Large / Case - 40 Diapers
Try try again

I love how comfy they are and just having to keep trying them makes me feel like a bab

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Ivy Meek (Illinois)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers
New favorite!

Where do I start!? The fabric and padding is so soft and absorbant! And the prints.. omggg the prints! Never in my life have I wanted to model in diapers more than I have in these! Get them. Now. 🌀🌀🌀🌀🌀

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Anonymous (Illinois)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers

Literally perfect :) will continue to buy from this company

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Spencer M Parker (Michigan)
Medium / Bag - 10 Diapers
Me & My Partner Love Them!!

I am very happy with my order! The pamps feel great and look great! I love them and would recommend them to others.

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Devon Giertz (Arkansas)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers
I Want More

I love these diapers! The cute designs, the fit, the absorbency, the materials used, and the cost is decently balanced! I have been wearing them full-time for the past 2 weeks and absolutely adore them! My only gripe is the Trunp surcharge but it's only $8 more compared to using the Shop mobile app. What I am hoping for is some new diaper designs! Perhaps some blue would be cool! Blue is my favourite colour. I love doing business with PretendAgains. They put so much effort, love, and care into their products. I have been ordering their diapers since 3rd of August of 2024 and their quality is always 10/10. Best thing about PretendAgains is they are always in stock. I wonder if they are going to make some plastic-backed diapers. That would be interesting to see!

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TryAgains Diapers
Joshua Poulin (Rhode Island)
Large / Bag - 10 Diapers
I love them!!

They are really comfy and me and my friend really like wearing them!! Plus the designs are adorable!

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Alex Reintjes (Washington)
Medium / Case - 40 Diapers
So good!

These are my favorite diaper ever! If more diapers could be made like this, I'd be so happy!

Very good quality hoodie! It is well insulated yet breathable. Vibrant colors & beautiful design. The cut is definitely made for men, though.

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Tee (Utah)
Large / Bag - 10 Diapers
The Perfect Diaper

I have always been on this quest to find the perfect diaper and cloth backs are my go to so when i found out about tryagains i got really excited but when they actually got here… omg… they are perfect. i have tried almost every other cloth diaper and these have the best cloth feel the tapes are super strong all the characters are adorable and i haven't leaked once even when I'm lazy about changing. These are fs going to be my go to for the foreseeable future.

Good diaper, but as a small man even the mediums are quite large! No fault of the manufacturing just got to offer a size small!

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TryAgains - Relaxed Gamer Pants - Devin
Andrew Shewchenko (British Columbia)
Standard (UwU Edition) / 2XL
Comfy and breezy

I've had the opportunity try both the fitted and relaxed version of the gamer pants, and while my preference is the relaxed for sure (lots more room in the seat for a big diaper), I kinda wish there was an in-between option as the pants become a bit swooshy at larger sizes. Still, very cute and perfect for sitting at home, not wanting to change.

Material is light-ish, not a thicker cotton like jogging pants. Colours are bright and vibrant, they are very comfy.